Tuesday, July 15, 2014

What is Tantric massage for me? Answers by Michal Marek Griks


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More about massages provided by me you may read here: http://tantramovement.blogspot.nl/search/label/Massages
Some of the answers by Michal Marek Griks for the Exam Neo Tantric Fusion Massage 2014 by Marjanne Hurks in Rasayana Tantra Academy
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Tantra Massage it is massage with use of sexual energy by stimulating also intimate parts of the body. It is a massage, where we build up that energy and then the person is coming before the point of no return and then instead of releasing it like it would be the goal in erotic massage, we bringing it up or/and spreading it in whole body. So this is deep work with energy, what include the connection between sexuality, love and spirituality ( sex, heart and head ) more about Tantra Massage would follow in the other answers like for example experiencing relaxation while being very conscious ( not almost sleeping like in other types of massage )
And here is offer of my tantric massages:
...Most important is connection. Bringing myself and you in to the state of energetic merging. If we are able to achieve that, everything will flow how it suppose to.
Deep healing may appear. Healing of your past, your presence, your future, healing of your body, your heart and your spirit, healing of your femininity and masculinity, healing of all other aspect of your life.
Deep sexual pleasure may occur too. In tantra we welcome sexual energy. Yes, we worship this sacred and creative power by keeping it in, instead of releasing and loosing it. We bring that energy called ecstasy in to the higher levels of your being like to the heart, that you will become more loving, or to the throat that your communication will improve, or to the head that you will become more creative. Its all up to us and energy flow.
Thankful that you may experience ecstasy not only in your genitals but also in all other parts of your body. Your life may never be the same ;)
Massage what I offer may be called tantric, intuitive, flow massage. Depends from the needs, I'm mixing in it techniques like Sexual Tao massage, Kundalini massage, Tibetan Pulsing massage, Kashmiric massage, Kum Nye massage and others.
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Tantra Massage is a tool for :
1 Deepening love to each other and to ourselves
2 Increasing intimacy
3 Building up the energy
4 Deblocking, disarmouring
5 Balancing energy in each chakra
6 Spreading the energy
7 Foreplay and after play
8 Healing
9 Growing spiritually
10 Developing awareness
11 Opening to trust
12 Entering the bliss and ecstasy
13 Learning to feel the ecstasy without the energy release (ejaculation, peak orgasm)
14 To have fun without necessity for intercourse
15 Experiencing full body orgasms
16 Relaxing while being fully aware
17 Enhancing pleasure
Three keys to create energy and discharge are breath, movement and sound ( i would add awareness )
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PC pump means access of energy from sexual area by upward to higher chakras. We do it by tiding the PC muscle, usually together with breath in and tilting the pelvis in to the front and visualising energy flow upward the spine.
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Pc muscle that the muscle what are around anus and genitals (like 8).

Below is quoted what i wrote on the leaflet:

Training the PC muscle (sometimes called "muscles of love" or "muscles of sex" ) is one of the most simple but also most efficient and beneficial technique what people can get from tantra.
This list of the benefits from exercising the PC muscle is already long but it includes only most important :)
- Stronger pelvic muscles
- Increase the blood flow to the genital area, and so support sexual arousal mechanisms and healing process.
- Shutting access of sexual energy to higher parts of the body = spreading ecstasy
- Preventing urinary incontinence

for a man:
- Preventing impotence
- Stronger and longer erections
- More control over ejaculation
- More intense and pleasurable orgasms
- Ability to have multiple male orgasms
- Prevent prostate cancer

for a woman:
- Better, stronger and more frequent orgasms
- Control over intensity of the ecstasy feelings
- Awakening clitoris, G point, breast and other sexual areas
- Harmonising hormones
- Decreasing PMS and menopause symptoms
- Easier childbirth and healing after
When You next time go to toilet with breath in stop urinating. The muscles what you're using that's PC muscle. Squeeze them and relax them 20 times 3 times per day. Like with every practice build it slowly. Every day increase till 30, 40, 50...till you would be able to do it at least for 3 minutes. Keep on the practice. As You will notice training the PC muscle is not visible for others and doesn't take your attention so its perfect to do in all possible situations ( i'm doing it even when i'm writing this text :)
+ link to video where I explain about PC muscle on one of the iintroduction to tantra workshop: http://tantramovement.blogspot.nl/2014/01/tantra-movement-theory-leaflet.html
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What means for you:
A) Admissibility and openness
Means that you are in attitude to be open for new things, new experience in your life, that you're ready for that what would come. It maybe healing, ecstasy, loving energy, emotions, feelings... Of course to achieve admissibility person have to be ready and feeling save.
B) Relaxation: That you let yourself to be fully relaxed without falling to sleep. That you let your body to be heavy on the table, that you breath deeply,that you leave behind whole worries and stress of the common life, that you with trust surrender whatever will happen.
C) Being here and now it means following with full attention the hands. Observing with full awareness what is happening inside and outside of the body. Being conscious. Witnessing, observing the present moment with all your senses. And whenever you notice that you got out of that state , that you got cough by the thoughts you just without getting annoyed with yourself, you come back to observing the floating hands. Here and now
If you would like to know more don't hesitate to ask: mgriks@gmail.com

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Meer over massages die ik verzorg kun je hier lezen: http://tantramovement.blogspot.nl/search/label/Massages

Enkele van de antwoorden van Michal Marek Griks bij het examen Neo Tantric Fusion Massage 2014 door Marjanne Hurks in Rasayana Tantra Academy

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Tantra Massage is massage met gebruik van seksuele energie door ook intieme delen van het lichaam te stimuleren. Het is een massage waarbij we de energie opbouwen en dan komt de persoon bij het gevoel te gaan ejaculeren en in plaats van het te laten gebeuren, zoals het doel zou zijn bij erotische massage, brengen we de energie naar boven en/of spreiden het in het hele lichaam. Dus dit is diep werk met energie, inclusief de verbinding tussen seksualiteit, liefde en spiritualiteit (geslacht, hart en hoofd). Meer over Tantra Massage volgt in de andere antwoorden zoals bijvoorbeeld het ervaren van ontspanning terwijl je heel bewust bent (niet bijna in slaap zoals bij andere soorten massage)

En hier is wat mijn tantrische massages bieden:
...Het belangrijkste is verbinding. Mezelf en jou in de staat van in elkaar opgaan brengen. Als we in staat zijn dat te bereiken, zal alles stromen zoals het hoort.
Diepe genezing kan plaatsvinden. Genezing van je verleden, je heden, je toekomst, genezing van je lichaam, je hart en je geest, genezing van je vrouwelijkheid en mannelijkheid, genezing van alle andere aspecten van je leven.
Diep seksueel plezier kan ook opkomen. In tantra verwelkomen we seksuele energie. Ja, we aanbidden deze heilige en creatieve kracht door het binnen te houden, in plaats van het los te laten en kwijt te raken. We brengen die energie genaamd extase naar de hogere niveaus van ons wezen zoals het hart, zodat je liefdevoller wordt, of naar de keel zodat je communicatie zal verbeteren, of naar het hoofd zodat je creatiever zult worden. Het is allemaal aan ons en de energiestroom.

Dankbaar dat je extase niet alleen in je genitaliën kunt ervaren, maar ook in alle andere delen van je lichaam. je leven zal nooit meer hetzelfde zijn ;)
Massage die ik aanbied kan tantrisch, intuïtief of stroom massage genoemd worden. Het hangt af van de behoeften, ik mix er technieken in zoals Seksuele Tao massage, Kundalini massage, Tibetan Pulsing massage, Kashmirische massage, Kum Nye massage en andere.

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Tantra Massage is een instrument voor :

1 Het verdiepen van liefde voor elkaar en voor onszelf
2 Intimiteit verhogen
3 Opbouwen van de energie
4 Deblokkering, ontwapening
5 Energie in ieder chakra balanceren
6 De energie spreiden
7 Voorspel en naspel
8 Genezing
9 Spirituele groei
10 Bewustzijn ontwikkelen
11 Openen naar vertrouwen
12 Zaligheid en extase binnengaan
13 De extase leren voelen zonder energieverlies (ejaculatie, piekorgasme)
14 Plezier hebben zonder noodzaak van seksuele gemeenschap
15 Ervaren van orgasmen in het gehele lichaam
16 Ontspannen terwijl je volledig bewust bent
17 Plezier verhogen

Drie sleutels om energie en ontlading te creëren zijn ademhaling, beweging en geluid (ik zou bewustzijn toevoegen)
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Bekkenbodem pomp betekent toegang van energie uit het seksuele gebied opwaarts naar hogere chakra's. We doen het door de bekkenbodemspier aan te spannen, gewoonlijk tijdens de inademing en terwijl we het bekken naar voren kantelen en visualiseren dat de energiestroom naar boven gaat via de ruggengraat.
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Bekkenbodemspier is de spier rond anus en genitaliën (zoals 8).
Hieronder is geciteerd wat ik schreef op de flyer:
Training van de bekkenbodemspier (soms genaamd "muscles of love" of "muscles of sex" ) is één van de meest simpele maar ook meest efficiënte en heilzame technieken die mensen kunnen krijgen van tantra.
Deze lijst van voordelen van het oefenen met de bekkenbodemspier is al lang maar bevat alleen de meest belangrijke :)
- Sterkere bekkenspieren
- Toename van de bloedstroom naar het genitale gebied, en dus ondersteuning van seksuele opwinding mechanismen en genezingsproces.
- Toegang van seksuele energie naar hogere delen van het lichaam = extase verspreiden
- Urine incontinentie voorkomen

voor een man:
- Impotentie voorkomen
- Sterkere en langere erecties
- Meer controle over ejaculatie
- Intensere en plezierigere orgasmen
- Mogelijkheid om meerdere mannelijke orgasmen te krijgen
- Prostaatkanker voorkomen

voor een vrouw:
- Betere, sterkere en frequentere orgasmen
- Controle over de intensiteit van de extase gevoelens
- Clitoris ontwaken, G spot, borst en andere seksuele gebieden
- Hormonen harmoniseren
- PMS en menopauze symptomen doen afnemen
- Gemakkelijkere bevalling en genezing daarna

Wanneer je de volgende keer naar het toilet gaat, stop met urineren bij de inademing. De spieren die je gebruikt zijn de bekkenbodemspier. Knijp ze samen en ontspan ze 20 keer 3 keer per dag. Zoals bij iedere oefening, bouw het langzaam op. Doe het iedere dag langer tot 30, 40, 50… totdat je in staat zult zijn om het tenminste 3 minuten te doen. Blijf oefenen. Zoals je zult merken is het trainen van de bekkenbodemspier niet zichtbaar voor anderen en het eist niet je aandacht op, dus is het perfect om te doen in alle mogelijke situaties (ik doe het zelfs terwijl ik deze tekst schrijf :))

+ link naar de video waar ik uitleg over de bekkenbodemspier bij een introductie in tantra workshop: http://tantramovement.blogspot.nl/2014/01/tantra-movement-theory-leaflet.html

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Wat betekent voor jou:

A) Toelaatbaarheid en openheid
Het betekent dat je in een houding bent om open te staan voor nieuwe dingen, nieuwe ervaring in je leven, dat je klaar bent voor dat wat zal komen. Het kan genezing zijn, extase, liefdevolle energie, emoties, gevoelens… Om toelaatbaarheid te bereiken moet een persoon natuurlijk klaar zijn en zich veilig voelen.
B) Ontspanning: Dat je jezelf volledig ontspannen laat zijn zonder in slaap te vallen. Dat je je lichaam zwaar laat zijn op de tafel, dat je diep ademhaalt, dat je de zorgen en stress van het gewone leven achterlaat, dat je met vertrouwen overgeeft aan wat er ook zal gebeuren.
C) Hier en nu zijn betekent met volle aandacht de handen volgen. Observeren met volledig bewustzijn wat er binnen en buiten het lichaam gebeurt. Bewust zijn. Getuigen, observeren van het huidige moment met al je zintuigen. En wanneer je merkt dat je uit die toestand raakt, dat je in gedachten belandt, kom je gewoon zonder geërgerd te raken naar jezelf, terug naar het observeren van de handen. Hier en nu.

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Monday, July 14, 2014

Plans for new school year in School Of Tantra Movement

School Of Tantra Movement would start again in end of september/beginning of october.
Those are our plans:

1. Workshops for all - once a week
2. Workshops for couples or people who are willing to work together - once a week

3. Sensual Biodanza by Merel Sloot - every second week
4. Healing the chakras by Kees Schenk - once a month
- once a month

This post would be updated, so keep checking or sign up for newsletter to get latest details.
If you have any questions don't hesitate to ask.
If you're interested in participating you may already book your place mgriks@gmail.com

Monday, July 7, 2014

"Magic of Tantric massage" workshop

This would be last official workshop before holidays (what would last till end of september/beginning of october). Till 23.7.14 we may be still in Amsterdam. We know that some people would like to do some extra workshops, so if you are interested let us know.

This workshop is composed in such a way that you can get the best of it, that you could learn and feel what sacred touch is, that would make you allow the healing energy of love into your body and life.

Mastering the art of giving and receiving tantric massage is opening us on many levels:
- Helps us recover energy
- Teaches us sacred touch
- Raises awareness of the body
- Is a great introduction to tantric sex
- Develops our potential of love

It is not possible to mention all of the benefits gained from tantric massage, but first of all it is an experience of deep inner joy, bliss, cleansing, peace and ecstasy. It is the experience of being whole.

We will mainly focus on the feelings in the body and not only on the techniques. First of all, we want to ensure that participants will experience the touch, that they will open up for receiving and giving on the body level, that they will open up for fully feeling the pleasure of being a giver and a receiver of a massage.

We want to go deep into the levels of feeling pleasure, bliss, and the flow of love energy. We want to let go and release all the tension from our bodies, to let it go and open up for more space where, there were previously blockades, and allow a stronger flow of life energy.

Bring organic cocos oil and towel if you can.

When:
Friday 11.07.2014 18.00 till 21.30

Where:
Il
Cielo. Oostzaanstraat 46
Amsterdam

Price:
45 Euro per person/85 per couple

This workshop is especially for couples or people who are willing to exercise together.

Here You could check updates, share and invite Your friends: https://www.facebook.com/events/254897844699125

For more info check: http://tantramovement.blogspot.nl/

Writing to us means confirmation that you're coming.
Don't hesitate to ask the questions mgriks@gmail.com


Friday, July 4, 2014

Sensual Biodanza in School Of Tantra Movement

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My name is Merel Sloot. For the past year together with Danielle Ploegmakers, I have been setting up a Biodanzagroup for young people in Rotterdam.

For me Biodanza is a very nice way to learn to better listen to my body and at the same time again and again learn more about in what way I like to be in contact witch other people. And I think Biodanza has a big overlap with Tantra. The way of looking at life in Biodanza is quite the same as in Tantra.

I want to propose to you a workshop, where you will discover playfully your sensuality and then you will make a loving and affective contact with other dancers. Every teacher has his/her own way, so everywhere Biodanza is a little bit different. Come and feel how I'm using the sexual aspect of Biodanza, the part of it, what i really love.

So feel welcome to come, play, dance and connect with us.
Everyone is welcome.

Tuesday 8.7.14 20.30 ~ 23.30
WG-terrein, Ketelhuisplein 41 Amsterdam
15 Euro per person, students can pay 10 euro.


Don't hesitate to ask the questions
Sending email to mgriks@gmail.com means always confirming your reservation.

Here You could check updates, share and invite your friends: https://www.facebook.com/events/269646319908485
More about the workshop and School Of Tantra Movement you can find out here: http://tantramovement.blogspot.nl/
...and about Merel Sloot here: http://biodanzametjongeren.nl/

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Mijn naam is Merel Sloot, ik ben 25 jaar en ik geef Biodanza. Het afgelopen jaar ben ik met Danielle Ploegmakers bezig geweest een jongerengroep te starten in Rotterdam.

Voor mij is Biodanza een hele fijne manier om beter te leren luisteren naar mijn lichaam en tegelijkertijd steeds opnieuw bij te leren hoe ik het het fijnst vind om met anderen in contact te zijn. Biodanza volgens mij veel raakvlakken met Tantra, de manier waarop beide naar het leven kijken is volgens mij redelijk hetzelfde.

Ik heb voor jullie een workshop gemaakt waarin we met elkaar op een speelse, vrije en veilige manier onze eigen sensualiteit (verder) gaan ontdekken en van daaruit liefdevol, affectief contact gaan maken met andere dansers die mee dansen. Dit is een soort try-out workshop om mij als docent een beetje te leren kennen, de manier waarop ik Biodanza aanbied, want iedere docent heeft zijn/haar eigen manier van lesgeven, overal is Biodanza een beetje anders.

Dus je bent welkom om lekker te komen dansen, spelen, en contact te maken met andere dansers.

Practische info:
Dinsdag 8.7.14 20.30 ~ 23.30
WG-terrein, Ketelhuisplein 41 Amsterdam
15 Euro per persoon, studenten mogen voor 10 euro.
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Friday, June 27, 2014

Journey to Awaken the Senses-Ceremony for couples

Maybe there is not better gift for each other than experiencing this ceremony together.

Listen to the quiet whispers of your own body. Shhhh.....

When we fully experience our senses, we enter into the heart, into love with existence. And instead of thinking about and analysing the world, we love it, we feel it, we become a part of it. We experience the bliss, ecstasy and deep fulfilment that can come to us through our senses.

To practise this, we do a ritual that awakens each sense in turn and allow ourselves to absorb this bliss in our hearts. This is a totally yummy, luscious and deep meditation that touches the body, heart and soul. For anyone who wants to expand the experience of their senses or use the body as a gateway to the self. Done to each other it is great way to connect and feel gratitude and more love, sympathy to Your partner. It bring a child in us, a child,who is playing in the adult games of love...
Tuesday 1.7.14 20.30 ~ 23.30 for couples or people who are willing to exercise together.
WG
-terrein, Ketelhuisplein 41
Amsterdam
45 Euro per person or 85 per couple for single workshop

Here You could check updates, share and invite Your friends: https://www.facebook.com/events/283593318489351
For more info check: http://tantramovement.blogspot.nl/

Writing to us means always confirmation that you're coming.
Don't hesitate to ask the questions 
mgriks@gmail.com , edytabaghira@gmail.com

Preparing for Awakening Kundalini energy.

Kundalini Energy, serpent power, strongest energy possible to use for human body. By some cultures awakening the Kundalini energy is recognised as enlightenment, blessing and goal of live, biggest liberation...
Suddenly all your senses would be awaken on 1000%. You may see, feel, experience things, what you was never before aware about. Your ecstasy would shift to other higher level. Intensity of life at that state may increase to the point that may scare you.
Be prepared. Be aware. Observe and accept.... or even better - permit yourself to be. To be who you really are. Recognise god/goddess within - feel it and become one. Life would never be the same. You're not alone.
Monday 30.6.14 20.30 ~ 23.30
WG-terrein, Ketelhuisplein 41
Amsterdam
45 Euro per person or 85 per couple for single workshop

Here You could check updates, share and invite Your friends: https://www.facebook.com/events/1498282600388713
For more info check: http://tantramovement.blogspot.nl/

Writing to us means always confirmation that you're coming.
Don't hesitate to ask the questions 
mgriks@gmail.com , edytabaghira@gmail.com

Sunday, June 22, 2014

"Magic of Tantric massage¨ workshop

This workshop is composed in such a way that you can get the best of it, that you could learn and feel what sacred touch is, that would make you allow the healing energy of love into your body and life.

Mastering the art of giving and receiving tantric massage is opening us on many levels:
- Helps us recover energy
- Teaches us sacred touch
- Raises awareness of the body
- Is a great introduction to tantric sex
- Develops our potential of love

It is not possible to mention all of the benefits gained from tantric massage, but first of all it is an experience of deep inner joy, bliss, cleansing, peace and ecstasy. It is the experience of being whole.

We will mainly focus on the feelings in the body and not only on the techniques. First of all, we want to ensure that participants will experience the touch, that they will open up for receiving and giving on the body level, that they will open up for fully feeling the pleasure of being a giver and a receiver of a massage.

We want to go deep into the levels of feeling pleasure, bliss, and the flow of love energy. We want to let go and release all the tension from our bodies, to let it go and open up for more space where, there were previously blockades, and allow a stronger flow of life energy.

Bring organic cocos oil and towel if you can.

When:
Friday 27.06.2014 19.30 till 23.00

Where:
Il
Cielo. Oostzaanstraat 46
Amsterdam

Price:
45 Euro per person/85 per couple for single workshop and only 120 for whole course

This workshop is a part of Fridays massage course for all ( 27.6, 4.7, 11.7 )
Those workshops are especially for couples or people who are willing to exercise together.

Here You could check updates, share and invite Your friends: https://www.facebook.com/events/1497229927162020

For more info check: http://tantramovement.blogspot.nl/

Writing to us means confirmation that you're coming.
Don't hesitate to ask the questions mgriks@gmail.com